OLD TESTAMENT

2 Samuel 13

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1

After this, Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.

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Verse 1. Thamar was born of Maacha, as well as Absalom.

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2

Amnon was so troubled that he became sick because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her.

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Verse 2. Her. He had seen her on some solemn occasions, when virgins were allowed to go out, well attended. At other times they were so strictly guarded, that Amnon thought it almost impossible to gratify his passion, ( Calmet.) which made him grow pale. He afterwards feigned himself to be more sickly than he really was, verse 6. Bible.

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3

But Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother; and Jonadab was a very subtle man.

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Verse 3. A very wise man. That is, a crafty and subtle man: for the counsel he gave on this occasion shews that his wisdom was but carnal and worldly. Challoner.—Jonadab seems to be styled Jonathan, Calmet. 21:21. Calmet.

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4

He said to him, “Why, son of the king, are you so sad from day to day? Won’t you tell me?” Amnon said to him, “I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

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Verse 4. King? to whom every indulgence must be allowed. Menochius.

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5

Jonadab said to him, “Lay down on your bed and pretend to be sick. When your father comes to see you, tell him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me bread to eat, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.’”

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Verse 5. To me. Hebrew “and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it,” and so forth Bible.—He pretends to be disgusted with food, ( Calmet.) unless he see his sister make it ready. Bible.

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6

So Amnon lay down and faked being sick. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, “Please let my sister Tamar come and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat from her hand.”

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Verse 6. Messes. Hebrew “cakes, or cordials;” what which refresh the heart, and give an appetite. The queen of Perdiccas, of Macedon, baked bread for her servants. Herod. viii. 137. Genesis 18:6.

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7

Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, “Go now to your brother Amnon’s house, and prepare food for him.”

8

So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was lying down. She took dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked the cakes.

9

She took the pan and poured them out before him, but he refused to eat. Amnon said, “Have all men leave me.” Then every man went out from him.

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Verse 9. Out. This conveys the idea of something liquid. Calmet.—It was a thin wafer, ( Bible.) or cake, of which there were different sorts.

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10

Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the room, that I may eat from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the room to Amnon her brother.

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Verse 10. Chamber. Hebrew Chadera, “bed-place,” (Song of Songs 1:4) where Amnon was lying. Calmet.

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11

When she had brought them near to him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister!”

12

She answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me! For no such thing ought to be done in Israel. Don’t you do this folly!

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Verse 12. Folly, or impiety, so directly contrary to the law. Levit. 18:6 and 9 and 11. Bible.

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13

As for me, where would I carry my shame? And as for you, you will be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you.”

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Verse 13. Thee. Was she ignorant that such marriages could not be allowed? Calmet.—Some think she was. Grot. Menochius.—Others believe that, in her present situation, she said what first came into her head, to get out of the hands of her brother. The Rabbins pretend that she was conceived before David married her mother, and that the latter was a pagan; so that they suppose there was no relationship between Thamar and Amnon. But this is all asserted without proof. Calmet.

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14

However, he would not listen to her voice; but being stronger than she, he forced her and lay with her.

15

Then Amnon hated her with exceedingly great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. Amnon said to her, “Arise, be gone!”

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Verse 15. Before. Such changes are not unfrequent in those who give way to disordered passions, as Aristotle (prob. iv.) proves. Semiramis slew her lovers, and among the rest her own son. Tirinus.—God caused Amnon to be stung with remorse, and the evil spirit pushed him on to extremities, which filled the palace with scandal and bloodshed. Menochius.

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16

She said to him, “Not so, because this great wrong in sending me away is worse than the other that you did to me!” But he would not listen to her.

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Verse 16. Greater, as being more public; ( Tirinus.) and all would think her guilty of some horrible misdemeanor. Bible.—It made the divulging of the crime in some degree necessary. Menochius.—Unhappy woman! why did she not cry out, at least, before the perpetration of the act, as the law directed? Deuteronomy 22:24. Salien, A. 3000.

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17

Then he called his servant who ministered to him, and said, “Now put this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.”

18

She had a garment of various colors on her, for the king’s daughters who were virgins dressed in such robes. Then his servant brought her out and bolted the door after her.

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Verse 18. Robe. Hebrew passim; long and variegated, like Joseph’s. Genesis 37:3. The Septuagint call it, καρπωτος, to insinuate that it was “adorned with fruits,” and so forth Bible.

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19

Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her garment of various colors that was on her; and she laid her hand on her head and went her way, crying aloud as she went.

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Verse 19. Head, as if to hide her face. Ezekiel 27:30, Jeremiah 2:37. So Mezentius:

“Canitiem immundo deformat pulvere et ambas

Ad Cœlum tendit palmas.” Virgil, Æneid x. See Iliad ii. Calmet.

—Crying, that no one might think she had consented. Menochius.—She probably went directly to her brother’s house, and related the affair to him; or he met her in this condition. Salien.

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20

Absalom her brother said to her, “Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now hold your peace, my sister. He is your brother. Don’t take this thing to heart.” So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.

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Verse 20. Brother. His disgrace will fall upon the whole royal family, and the king will not bring him to punishment, like another. Calmet.—Away. Hebrew and Chal. “desolate.” Menochius.—Septuagint “like a widow.”

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21

But when King David heard of all these things, he was very angry.

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Verse 21. And he, and so forth This is not in Hebrew and so forth nor in S. Jerom’s version. Josephus and some copies of the Septuagint read it. But the reason here alleged would not suffice to excuse David. Calmet.—He might think that, as he had shewn such a bad example himself, he could not with a good grace punish others. Sanctius.—This however was requisite, as long as he was king. Whatever faults he might have fallen into, he was not on that account to suffer crimes to remain unpunished; ( Bible.) and it is supposed that he testified his resentment to Amnon; (Salien, and so forth) though the Scripture be silent thereon. Bible.—Abulensis condemns him for too great remissness. Menochius.

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22

Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

23

After two full years, Absalom had sheep shearers in Baal Hazor, which is beside Ephraim; and Absalom invited all the king’s sons.

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Verse 23. Two. Hebrew “full years.” He waited so long, that he might put his murderous designs in execution with less suspicion. Bible.—Sheep. It was esteemed the best husbandry, “to have fine flocks;” bene pascere: (Cato) even for the nobility.—Ephraim, or Ephrem; (John 11:54) probably near Bethel. Joseph. Bel. verse 33. Calmet.—Nabal had made a feast on a similar occasion. 1 Kennicott. 25. Absalom invites his father to avoid suspicion; ( Menochius.) though he would be glad at his refusing to come, unless perhaps he would not have hesitated to order his brother to be murdered in his very presence, in order to punish both. Bible.

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24

Absalom came to the king and said, “See now, your servant has sheep shearers. Please let the king and his servants go with your servant.”

25

The king said to Absalom, “No, my son, let’s not all go, lest we be burdensome to you.” He pressed him; however he would not go, but blessed him.

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Verse 25. Blessed him, wishing him joy. Absalom kept a separate establishment, and had many children. Calmet. 14:27. Menochius.

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26

Then Absalom said, “If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us.” The king said to him, “Why should he go with you?”

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Verse 26. Amnon. He mentions him as the eldest, and that David might suppose that they were perfectly reconciled. Calmet.—The unhappy father seems for a long time to have expressed a reluctance and foreboding. Bible.

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27

But Absalom pressed him, and he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him.

28

Absalom commanded his servants, saying, “Mark now, when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine; and when I tell you, ‘Strike Amnon,’ then kill him. Don’t be afraid. Haven’t I commanded you? Be courageous, and be valiant!”

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Verse 28. It is I: the blame will fall on me; I will rescue all from danger. These servants were probably infidels, of Gessur, and fled with their master. Menochius.

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29

The servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king’s sons arose, and every man got up on his mule and fled.

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Verse 29. Mule. This is the first time we find these animals used to ride on. The judges had fair asses. These mules were not the offspring of horses and asses. They bear young in Syria, (Aristot. anim. vi. 24.) and are little inferior to horses in size, though they are shaped like our mules. Ibid. c. xxxvi.

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30

While they were on the way, the news came to David, saying, “Absalom has slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left!”

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Verse 30. Left. Fame often magnifies. Menochius.—Crescit eundo. Bible.

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31

Then the king arose, and tore his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.

32

Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother, answered, “Don’t let my lord suppose that they have killed all the young men, the king’s sons, for Amnon only is dead; for by the appointment of Absalom this has been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.

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Verse 32. Mouth. Chal. Syr. “heart.” Aquila, “because Absalom was in wrath against him.” He had resolved upon his destruction. Calmet.—Perhaps he had expressed his intention to some of the court; and this Jonadab (by whose means the crime had been committed, verse 5) had heard of it. Bible.

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33

Now therefore don’t let my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead; for only Amnon is dead.”

34

But Absalom fled. The young man who kept the watch lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, many people were coming by way of the hillside behind him.

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Verse 34. Mountain. Olivet. Calmet.—They had not kept the high road through fear of Absalom; (Abul.) who, on his part, fled out of the country, as no city of refuge was able to protect wilful murderers. Bible.

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35

Jonadab said to the king, “Behold, the king’s sons are coming! It is as your servant said.”

36

As soon as he had finished speaking, behold, the king’s sons came, and lifted up their voices and wept. The king also and all his servants wept bitterly.

37

But Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihur, king of Geshur. David mourned for his son every day.

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Verse 37. Tholomai, or Tholmai, ( Bible. Calmet. 3:3) his maternal grandfather. Calmet.

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38

So Absalom fled and went to Geshur, and was there three years.

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Verse 38. Ceased. We do not read that he had pursued Absalom before. Calmet.—Now he laid aside all thoughts of punishing him, as he began even to desire to see him again, when he reflected that Amnon had deserved death. Bible.—Hebrew also, “he burnt with a secret desire to receive Absalom.” Calmet. 14:1. Jonathan. Vatab. and so forth Calmet.—Prot. “the soul of king David longed to go forth unto,” and so forth Bible.

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39

King David longed to go out to Absalom, for he was comforted concerning Amnon, since he was dead.